‘Peckish’ persona partners should start with the Single Chili cards and focus on reconnecting outside of the bedroom first, re-discovering each other through dates that focus on intimacy. We encourage you to dive into these experiences with an open mind and heart. Navigating these unique situations can help to strengthen the foundations of the relationship, and nurture the friendship that lies beneath.

Once you’re feeling more connected you can move on up to the Double Chili cards where you’ll start to bring curiosity and play into the bedroom. This step should only be explored when both partners are genuinely excited to play further. We recommend saving the Triple Chili cards for last, once you’re keen to be more adventurous and discover new ways of pleasure together. You’ll know you’re ready when the Double Chili cards leave you wanting more.

Couples with Peckish and Famished Personas should start with a mix of the Single and Double Chili cards. Famished partners may be eager for more but need to place their focus on doing this together. The Double Chili cards are designed for the bedroom and are more spicy so it’s perfectly okay to just peek at them without ‘playing the game’. Each partner could explain why they would/wouldn’t be interested in the card’s activity at this point. Use this as an opportunity to bridge the gap in the understanding of each other. Being able to empathize and support each other even if you are in different places is incredibly necessary for couples who might struggle to communicate their needs, set boundaries or experience desire discrepancy. The goal is to explore new territory together with the aim of getting a better insight into your partner’s desires and drive.

We recommend saving the Triple Chili cards for last, only once you’ve played through and enjoyed the Double Chillies. The Triple Chili cards are sexy and spicy and should only be tried when you’re ready to be more adventurous and discover new ways of pleasure together.

Peckish and Ravenous pairs might be struggling with communication or desire discrepancies since they are very different. The Ravenous partner might be eager to explore further in the bedroom whilst the Peckish partner might not be seeing sex as a priority at this point. These are tricky places to be and we hope this game allows for a more lighthearted approach to navigating this. We recommend starting with the Single Chili cards to warm up. By taking things slow and being reminded of your connection and the things that brought you together in the first place, you are more inclined to find compromise instead of trying to change one another. This is a great opportunity to practice meeting in the middle. Only advance to the Double chill cards when you’re both feeling confident and comfortable. This is the middle and the ideal playground for your pairing.

When you’re feeling ready, try scratching off one or two Triple Chili cards and use it as a learning moment. The Ravenous partner could explain their desires and fantasies and which cards interest them the most. Sharing this as just information ensures the Peckish partner doesn’t feel pressured to play but can just hear their partner out and validate them, which can often be very supportive for the Ravenous partner.

Both partners with this pairing are feeling well connected and intimate but it’s important you remain curious to explore more. Start off with a mix of Single and Double Chili cards to warm up, this will ensure you’re still prioritizing intimacy, curiosity and quality time and will give you more ideas to play with. Once you’re ready to move onto the Triple Chilli cards you’ll definitely reap the fruits of your labor and the previous activities will have felt like tantalizing foreplay!

The Single Chili cards might act as foreplay for this saucy pairing. The Single Chili cards are not to be underestimated as a deeper emotional connection can result in a more satisfactory sex life, so it can’t hurt to start there. When you are wanting more, play with the Double Chili cards and once you’re ready dive into the Triple Chillies,  by this point the previous activities will have felt like tantalizing foreplay!

We know this pairing is ready to dive straight into the Triple Chili cards but want to encourage you to build up the anticipation. The Single and Double Chili cards will warm you up before heading to the Triple Chillies. It’s important not to skip these as the benefits from the Single and Double Chili cards only serve to heighten and intensify your curiosity and connection in the bedroom for when you get to the Triple Chilli cards. Be curious and open minded as you let these activities bring you and your partner closer. Enjoy the journey as you learn more about your partner's pleasure as well as your own!