Start by setting the mood! Block out some time with your partner (we like to this of this as the perfect date night activity), pour yourself a drink and switch on that ambient lighting. If you have access to a printer, print off two copies for yourself and your partner, if printing isn't an option, pull the quiz up on your screen of choice and write down your answers separately on a blank piece of paper. When it comes to comparing scores don't be afraid to delve into conversation, share your needs and desires (along with your boundaries) with your partner.